The most common issue surrounding being a househusband is gaining acceptance. It is hard enough for a woman to join a group of mothers (who she has possibly nothing really in common with except the fact that they have all recently given birth), let alone being a man. Other mothers in these groups may be accepting of you, wary, intrigued or you may find you gain 'privileges' because you are the token male. They may even perceive your role as admirable.
One father found being a househusband in public made him more female friends than when he wore a suit (a bonus?). Other men have found it isolating and difficult to find social support during the many long hours while the mother was at work. Becoming depressed for the father is also a possibility, so seek out help if you feel you are not coping. Try not to be afraid to ask for help. The reality is, it will be a major adjustment and not many people, men or women, can parent a new baby without some level of support.
Parenting a new baby can be hard work, a sharp learning curve but also an amazing experience. As one father said:
"Interacting with your child is the most introductory course to deep emotions imaginable."
Parenting means giving your child the very basics of what they need. In the early weeks, your day will usually entail holding, feeding, stroking, talking to, bathing and comforting them. Bear in mind that they are pretty 'durable' and will generally survive your mistakes. The minimum requirement is that they are warm, fed and loved.
As the weeks go on you may be content with just being at home and caring for your baby with the occasional trip to the park, or you may feel like getting out and about on a daily basis. One father's suggestions include taking your baby bushwalking, showing them coloured plastics, the flowers, galleries and museums. In your time with them, talk to your baby about anything and everything.