Do I need to be shaved?
Shaving was popular with caregivers in the 1960's, 70's and 80's but is done rarely these days. The aim of shaving the pubic hair for a vaginal birth was to lessen the risk of infection of the perineum if it did tear or was cut and possibly make the suturing easier (which is rarely the case).
Shaving has been shown to produce small cuts or nicks in the skin that can increase the chances of infection. It is for this reason as well as the fact that most women dislike being shaved, besides the discomfort it when the hair re-grows in the weeks after the birth, that it is no longer recommended.
Care after birth
If you do tear or end up having an episiotomy then caring for your perineum will probably be an important issue for you. The genital area of a woman is similar to the type of skin and tissue in the human mouth. If you have ever injured your mouth, you will know that it can bleed heavily, swell immensely (like a fat lip) but have an amazing capacity to heal well on its own. So it is with the woman's vagina.
The stitches usually need no extra care. Daily hygiene such as a bath or shower and padding the area dry with a soft towel is adequate. You may wish to shower or bathe more regularly or after you open your bowels (which normally doesn't occur until 2 to 3 days after giving birth, nature is kind!). Blowing a hair dryer on the area has been shown to dry the skin excessively and inhibit healing, as can heat lamps and sun exposure, so avoid these.
If the perineal muscles have been injured (usually a 2nd degree tear or an episiotomy) then
pelvic floor exercises after the birth will be important. When you do open your bowels, folding some clean toilet paper and placing it gently on the perineum where the stitches are and holding it there while you go to the toilet, can splint the weakened perineum and help support the stitches, as well as giving you the oomph you need to open your bowels. For more information read